listen um what I've been
learning recently about life about love
about
anything it's that no one in this world
will ever give me what I truly
want so the type of love from
relationships from friendships and even
from family the type of love that I
Envision in my
mind it's not the type of love that I'm
going to get from anyone else because
that's what I want that's what I know I
am capable of giving myself so I put
people in this
position where now I'm expecting them to
give me that so this this is what makes
most people work
extra hard work extra hard because they
think if I work this hard um if I please
this person they'll give me exactly what
I want but then people don't give you
exactly what they want because they
don't really know what you want because
the type of love that you want is in
your own head so if it's in your own
head all you can do is to describe it
but they don't know how it feels they're
not going to know how you want to to
feel so the best thing you can do for
yourself is to actually give that love
to
yourself I think we are so lucky that we
can actually love
ourselves we have that ability to love
ourselves I was just thinking the other
day how sad it would be if we were
unable to love ourselves but being those
type of being that have to depend on
each other for
love I am so grateful that we can love
ourselves
so since we find ourselves in this world
where no one is perfect where love is
not
guaranteed from other people at least
within yourself love is guaranteed and I
think the reason why we can love
ourselves is because we have God within
us I
think God being in US is
very big it's a big big big blessing
that I don't want to take for granted I
am so grateful I am so grateful that I
have God inside of me I am so grateful
that I am a being that has God inside of
them I don't know which other being have
God inside of them cuz I don't want to I
don't want to talk too much and say uh
dogs dogs don't have God inside of them
I don't know nobody knows which other
beings have got inside of them but this
intelligence This Love that animals can
show us I don't want to lie that just
tells me that there's God inside of
these beings as well so we don't really
know what's in what who's in what what's
going on but it at least I know that as
a human being I have God within me God
dwells God dwells in me so that's
something to celebrate every day that's
something I never want to take for
granted and yeah man um that's it I I
don't want
to I don't want to talk much but I just
wanted to show appreciation for the fact
that that we can love ourselves because
wo what would we
do
if nobody loved us and we can't even
love ourselves or we can't even have
ideas to love ourselves it would have
been very sad imagine finding
yourself where nobody loves you and it's
not like people are like
intentionally um making this decision to
not love you you know love does not work
like that you don't make a decision to
say hey I'm going to love this person it
doesn't work like that so it's not like
people um are planning on to not loving
you but just finding yourself where
you're not
loved um that would have that that would
hurt that would hurt so much and even if
it's that way one thing that I also love
that even if you can't love yourself you
don't love yourself and nobody else
loves you guess who loves you every day
who loved you yesterday is going to love
you now who loves you now and he's going
to love you tomorrow that is God God is
amazing God is amazing
so
um I just want you to know that you are
loved I'm not saying this trying to
motivate you you are loved you have you
have God inside of you dwelling inside
of you a god of love God whom is love
you know they say God is love you have
love inside of you so the love that you
want from other people just give it to
yourself cuz you have it you want
somebody's going to buy you
flowers buy yourself flowers if you
don't afford to buy flowers go to a
garden and pl out some flowers make
yourself a small bouquet and take care
of it and love it and appreciate it
plant yourself a flower just do
something for yourself speak to yourself
nicely how you would like people who
love you to speak to you respect
yourself be gentle with yourself and
treat yourself better I I think that's
one of the things that you can do I
think that's one of the things that you
can do to show your that you love
yourself so I'm just saying expecting
the
people to give you the exact love that
you envision for yourself it's
unrealistic and very unfair if you find
someone who's going to love you even
better than you've envisioned for
yourself wow that's that's beautiful
because that's very possible it happens
every day so if you find yourself there
C that appreciate that and cherish every
moment with that person but if you're
somebody who's not getting exactly what
they want from other people and that is
love the way you want to be loved maybe
they are just not um equipped to be able
to love you that way it doesn't mean
that they selfish or they bad or they
don't love you at all they just can't
love you how you want them to love you
so maybe you should love yourself that
way and yeah man
I don't know what else to say I think
I've said everything that I wanted to
say about selflove and the importance of
not expecting people to love you exactly
how you want them to love you because
people don't always know people don't
always know what's going on in your mind
how you want to be loved you can always
tell them and you are lucky if they get
exactly what you're trying to say to
them so yeah man um until next time my
beautiful people bye and toodles