have you ever wondered if your partner
truly loves you you may think you know
their love language you might even speak
it
fluently but sometimes the ways we feel
loved are not the same as what our
partner needs to feel loved this can
leave both of you feeling empty and
unsatisfied in today's video we share 10
clear signs that show your partner may
not love you as much as you believe
knowing these signs can help you
understand your relationship better and
decide what you truly deserve if you are
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simple advice on love and
relationships now let's start with the
first sign one they pretend to be busy a
loving partner wants to spend time with
you when someone is truly in love they
look forward to being with you but if
your partner often acts busy when it is
time to be together it is a red flag
they might say they have too much work
or other plans this may be their way of
avoiding spending quality time with you
when they do this it might mean that
they do not truly value your time
together instead of feeling hurt think
about setting some
boundaries spend time with your own
friends and family this shows that your
time is precious over time they may
realize you will not wait around forever
two they are only in it for the physical
relationship love is more than just
physical attraction true love means you
connect on an emotional mental mental
and spiritual level if your partner only
seems interested in the physical side of
the relationship and does not ask about
your feelings or dreams then that is a
sign a real partner wants to know
everything about you they want to share
their life with you not just share a bed
when all you feel is physical Touch
without emotional connection it can
leave you feeling empty remember
intimacy is important but it is not the
only thing that makes a relationship
work three they rarely compliment you
compliments make us feel good they show
that someone sees our worth and
appreciates us if your partner rarely
gives you compliments it might be a sign
that they are not fully invested in your
happiness some people may use
compliments to hide their true feelings
but true love comes with sincere praise
notice if your partner fails to say kind
words about your personality your
talents or the little things you do
every day when a person truly loves you
they will make you feel special through
words and gestures lack of genuine
compliments can be a sign that your
partner is not as interested in you as
you think four they make you feel
completely dependent on them in a
healthy relationship you lean on each
other sometimes but you should never
feel completely dependent on one person
if your partner makes you feel like you
need them for every little thing it is a
warning sign this dependency can mean
that they use you to meet their own
needs rather than caring about you a
good partner will support you when you
need help but will also encourage you to
be
independent when you feel that you must
rely on them for everything it shows an
imbalance in the relationship true love
allows you to grow as an individual
while still being a team five they
initiate contact only when they need
something communication should go both
ways when a man loves you he will often
reach out first if you find that you are
always the one who calls or text TT and
your partner only initiates contact when
he needs something that is not a good
sign it means he might not be interested
in your life a caring partner wants to
share experiences and hear about your
day they check in just to say hello if
he only contacts you when he needs a
favor or help it shows that his focus is
on what he can get not what you can
share together six they want to break up
but are afraid of being
alone sometimes a partner may seem on
the edge of breaking up with you but if
they do not truly love you it might be
because they are more afraid of being
alone than of being with you when
someone is in love they will fight for
the
relationship they will work through the
hard times but if your partner often
talks about ending the relationship yet
stays only because they fear loneliness
it is a sign of
insecurity this Behavior shows that they
are not truly committed a real partner
will fight for you not hold you hostage
out of fear seven they blame you for
everything in every relationship
problems can
arise however a caring partner takes
responsibility for their own actions if
your partner always blames you when
things go wrong it shows a lack of
emotional maturity a healthy
relationship is a two-way street both
Partners share the blame and work
together to fix issues constant blame
indicates that they may be trying to
avoid
responsibility this Behavior can erode
your self-esteem and weaken your bond
over time eight they don't respect the
relationship respect is key in any
loving
relationship if your partner does not
show respect for the bond you share then
their love may be shallow this can show
up in many ways they might flirt with
others or ignore your
feelings they may not honor the promises
you have made together when someone does
not respect the relationship it is hard
for true love to grow a loving partner
values you and the connection you have
built lack of respect can lead to deep
hurt and a breakdown of trust nine they
don't make an effort love is not a
one-time act it is built on continuous
effort if your partner does not make any
effort to improve the relationship or to
show you that they care it is a clear
sign that they are not truly in love a
person who loves you will try to please
you they will find ways to solve
problems and make you happy when there
is no no effort it means that they are
not willing to invest in you over time
this lack of effort can lead to a slow
drift apart 10 they don't care if you're
happy or sad a loving partner always
cares about your emotions they want you
to be happy and they share in your
sadness if your partner shows little
concern for your feelings it is a major
sign that their love may be lacking when
you are happy they should celebrate with
you when you are sad they should comfort
you if they remain indifferent it shows
that they are not emotionally connected
to you a caring partner will always try
to lift your spirits and help you feel
loved final thoughts it can be hard to
tell if your partner truly loves you
love is complex and people show it in
different ways but if you notice many of
these signs in your relationship it may
be time to take a closer look you
deserve a partner who loves you fully
not just in words but in actions when
your partner pretends to be busy only
cares about the physical rarely
compliments you makes you feel dependent
only reaches out when they need
something talks about breaking up out a
fear of loneliness blames you for
everything does not respect the
relationship makes no effort or does not
care about your feelings these are all
signs that they may not love you as much
as you deserve recognizing these signs
is the first step toward a healthier
relationship it can be very painful to
face the truth but understanding your
worth is important true love is built
built on respect care and mutual effort
it should lift you up not bring you down
sometimes understanding the true nature
of love can be hard but remember you
deserve to be with someone who truly
cares for you if you feel that you are
not being loved the way you should be it
might be time to re-evaluate your
relationship in the end the sooner you
understand the truth about your
partner's Behavior the better it will be
for both of you you can work on
improving your connection or you may
decide to move on to someone who will
value you fully knowing these signs
empowers you to take control of your
happiness and
well-being thank you for watching if you
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out to you or if you have any other
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stay true and take care of your heart